Looking in the Mirror....What do You See?

Looking in the Mirror 

There comes a time in your life that you have to make a decision whether you are going to live your life solely off of emotion. Now this is not just any kind of emotion but RAW emotion! Now I consider myself to be a person FULL of passion yet that is by no means to be used as an excuse or justification for CRAZY behavior.

Now I have observed some Crazy actions by people, in particular females, when it comes to their relationships with men and who is to blame when the relationship is broken. I have heard time and time again, "well he hurt me so I have the RIGHT to react/respond this way".....

Now to put this bluntly...That’s BULL....the fact a person hurts you, doesn't give you the excuse to act like a fool. I have seen in public, women yelling, hitting, and cussing etc at their men. Ladies, YOU control your actions. Don’t be driven by your emotions…you WILL say and do things you will regret later and at that point sorry won’t cut it.

Do people's feelings get hurt? Yes. Does it feel like you have no control? Yes. But the truth is, you do have control. Emotions are real and they are apart of us but we must take responsibility in this.

It SUCKS….to be lied to, cheated on, and abandoned yet the wrong approach is to get mad & then even. Now I'm not saying a person doesn't have the Right to be angry, pissed off and hurt but instead of reacting negatively, react positively to it. Now I know this is easier said then done but it is possible.

1. Take responsibility.

It’s not just about what he did or didn’t do it also deals with how you reacted. Once you take responsibility things will be easier for you.

2. Surround yourself with positivity.

Now this means no male bashing sessions. (which this is something that tends to be the norm) Go Celebrate Yourself and how beautiful you are to focus on the lessons and learn from them.

3. Let it Go and Move forward.

There is no time period for this. It's a day by day thing. The longer you dwell in the misery of you being hurt, the harder it is to move forward from any darkness you are feeling. You have to let it go because if you don’t it will affect your future relationships.

I'm just tried of hearing and seeing people especially women make excuses for their irrational emotion driven behavior. Look in the mirror and wake up! Life is full of decisions and one of the biggest decisions we can make is taking responsibility for our actions instead of pointing fingers….